Inner Game and Self Confidence

Inner game is a constant battle. Our inner self confidence reflects an energy that others feel. Change your habits and increase your inner game.

There is absolutely no better way then action to increase confidence. In Marci Shimhoff's book "Happy for no Reason", she states a statistic that 95% of all human beings have the same fear or limiting belief. That they are not enough or not important, and sadly enough that they are not qualified in God's eyes. Whether people admit it or not it is easily observed.

60% of communication is body language, 33% is tone of voice, and a measly 7% is the actual words used in talking or communicating. Well with those numbers how is then that we mainly communicate to those around us? Through our body language. How though do we have great body language. Is is as simple as your inner game. The more you increase your mindset, self worth, and confidence... the more people will feel your energy.

One of the easiest ways for one to relate is through sales and dating. When a salesman approaches a prospect, it is hardly the words that will make the difference. Yes tweaking them will increase your sales, yet the ability to have a set of words with out hesitation gleams an energy of confidence. With dating, when a man approaches a woman, she will know instantly his motive for the most part, or if he has developed an inner game of self worth and confidence.

In a previous post it has been noted that Napoleon Hill's book, "Think and Grow Rich", he tells us that we should spend no less then 10 minutes at the minimum a day working on mindset.

The b side to the truth is this, most people do not care if you look like a fool and if they do it will last for only seconds; because they are too worried about themselves and about how they are perceived. They are actually seeking your approval. The more approval you give the more people will see your self worth. The more success you have the stronger your confidence is boosted.

In sales, consultants are taught to role play, role play, and role play. The moral of the story is they are taught to increase their skills. Rarely are people taught to increase their socializing skills and their self worth through practice and role play. As the sales consultant increases his skills, in turn his confidence rises. As his confidence rises, so does his bank account.

Now some people will say, that is not me, I want people to like me for who I am. This is a self-told lie that we as human beings use as an excuse. Typically an excuse of unwillingness to improve one self and skills. These people should be more worried than the person willing to improve them self.

The more time we spend focusing on our inner game and self worth, the more energy inside of us rises. As our energy rises, it gleams through your eyes, your body language, your tone of voice, and makes your words seem genuine, because they are genuine. It will attract people in to your life. The more positive energy you attract the more fulfilled you become and an increased desire to create value in the lives of others. You then become living the b side of reality, and you truly start to care more about the increase and the well-being of others then your self. The more you increase this, the more your inner game develops. The only way that is obtained is through first increasing your self worth in your own eyes. The treasure and tools are already there, they are just masked over with fallacies, false limiting beliefs, and insecurities developed from miss-perception.

Colton - discover your true'ness'